No human relationship can permit violence without consequence.

Those for this policy agree that Equality under the law without favour nor qualified according to gender but only through mutual consent and mutual respect according to being at least old enough to vote and to drive, because from the moment of bonding the responsibility is to the life and the welfare of the other in stating vows of bonding in mutual respect to share space, time and property, the unstated pledge is to do no harm, so abuse disqualifies all and has all promises breached in that act. No one wants to gjve their life to a bully if they are also healthy of mind, to marry into a life without care nor empathy, a battlefield is not a home. Especially not for any children as a school for life best lived. Abuse and lost respect mutual and self is greater breach of bond than infidelity, and nullifies vows instantaneously. Too many passionate killings by weak people indicate the vows of marriage are too easily made and separate dwellings may save lives.